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What is the happy reality of our generation?

15.06.2025 23:56

What is the happy reality of our generation?

The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.

The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.

> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.

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Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.

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There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.

How do you handle family members who ask for handouts?

Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.

Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.

Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.

Why after 50 years of being straight do I constantly desire to suck cock?

Import Substitution was the mantra.

It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.

Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)

If a female has XX chromosomes and a male has XY chromosomes, what chromosomes do transgenders have?

On a personal level.

2014- Present

Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.

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South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.

I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.

1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)

I caught my neighbor leaving his 12-year-old son home alone and he has not come back in 6 hours. Should I call CPS?

South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.

The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.

> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.

Why do atheists want to see God so badly?

Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.

> India’s population was around 365 million.

> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?

Can you explain the difference between God and atma according to the Bhagavad-Gita?

There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.

Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.

Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.

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Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.

Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.

Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.

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Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.

We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.

Education has gotten so much more expensive.

Why do many women wear sleeveless shirts, more so than men?

Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.

Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)

> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.

Why do narcissist move on so easily?

I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.

> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.

Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.

Why are people so rude to debt collector’s? I am one and I am so tired of being mistreated. We are under paid and then have to deal with the most ungrateful, and disrespectful people. We aren’t customer service. Don’t get mad at us because YOU owe.

Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.

1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)

People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).

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Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.

It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.

Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;

I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.

5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.

Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.

1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)

2014- Present ( Modi).

Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.

The Airports have gotten better and nicer.

There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.

Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.

Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.

Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.

Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.

>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.

Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).

Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.

> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.

Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.

I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.

IIT’s had just been established.

Bank Jobs were highly sought after.

The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.

Redefined

There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.

Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.

> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.

Many Indian Journalists have now been co opted so that they too are now in the money making business and currying favor with the powers that be. So how objective can their writings be?

Growing up in this decade.

And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.

Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)

Pluses:

As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.